20 November 2009

The Labor Story - Part I of ??

On June 8th I went to the OB/GYN for my 38 week appointment (although I was two days shy of 38 weeks). I was slightly nervous because my BP had been sporadically rather high, but it hadn't been too bad the last time so I wasn't feeling too bad. I went to an OB where there were numerous doctors and you didn't always get the one you wanted but that day I had made the appointment with Dr. M. who we LOVED. Dr. M was the one who guided us through our miscarriage, and then when we got pregnant again he guided us through my subchorionic hemorrhage and broke the news to us last year that I had to stay in bed and couldn't go to Canada. He was utterly kind and wonderful and a TERRIFIC doctor.

I had my ultrasound and blood draw and urine analysis and internal exam and then Dr. M. asked us to meet him in his office (which is what he does and was not ominous). We sat down and the doctor said 'what are you doing later tonight?' We knew what this mean - induction. I was not dilated at all and the baby had not dropped but he was an estimated 5 pounds 9 ounces and my blood pressure was sky high (I can't remember anymore how high...but scary). The doctor asked us a few questions and we asked a few back and I was scheduled to be induced at midnight that night. Dr. M. called to schedule the induction while we sat there and he used a lot of abbreviations that I didn't know but checked on the minute we got home. I was SGpositive (Strep G positive - not a big deal for mama, lots of people are Strep G positive, but a big deal for baby, I would need to be put on antibiotics to make sure that I didn't pass the virus on to Cooper), had PIH (pregnancy induced hypertension), and Cooper was SGA (small for gestational age).

We walked out of that office in a daze. We couldn't quite wrap our minds around what was going on. As we walked to the car we each pulled out our cell phones and called our respective jobs and mothers. Then I determined that since we were not going to have alone time for quite a while I wanted to go to Olive Garden for lunch. We did and I had apricot chicken and angel hair pasta with Alfredo sauce and it was very good!

After we got home I did some frantic hospital bag packing, arranged to take the dogs to a boarding kennel, tidied the house, made phone calls and then took a nap. While I did that Paul The Procrastinator went to the fire station and got help installing the car seat correctly. Fortunately I had preregistered for the hospital already so that was done. After all of that was said and done we took some pictures of my pregnant belly and then at around 10:30 we headed for the hospital.

I will spare you the pics in a sports bra so you do not have to see the approximately 40 stretch marks across my belly. Thanks Coopie!

We got the the hospital at around 11:30 and were told that we could wait in the 'family room'. We didn't expect the wait to be long but it was INTERMINABLE and we didn't get called in until after 1:30 am as I recall. In the meantime we had to listen to other people's obnoxious family members and, the television was set to FOX STINKIN' NEWS which caused me to become apoplectic with rage about every 15 minutes or so and start storming around the room leaving what was probably a palpable trail of ANNOYANCE in my wake. No one should have to sit in a room at 1 in the morning waiting to have a child and be stuck listening to Bill O'Reilly. Lord help me.

Eventually I was called in but Paul was told he had to wait. We thought that was odd but it turned out that they needed to ask me all sorts of questions like 'are you afraid to spend time alone with your husband' and 'are you afraid to go home after this with your husband'. I indicated that I was not and then had to answer about another hundred questions, give blood and pee, get into my gown, get a blood pressure cuff attached to my arm, an IV into the other arm and get the monitors attached to my belly. Finally another nurse came into our (very nice) room and announced that Paul was going to come in whether we were ready or not because he was about to knock down the door. I was really touched by that and Paul was in near panic mode when he finally got to come in because nobody had explained to him why he was not allowed in for the beginning. But, now we were settled in, had met our nurses and were ready to go.

Wow, that's unattractive. Toward the middle of my pregnancy the hormones kicked in and gave me GORGEOUS, smooth, perfect skin for a few months. Then in the last month or two new hormones kicked in that made my rosacea F-L-A-R-E like you would not believe. Oh, wait, you would, you can see it right there! And it is still just as bad now that the baby is 5+ months old! Whee!

26 October 2009

Hi, I'm still alive. I'm working hard to catch up on everything including Facebook and this blog but it is slow going. Miss you all and I will try to write here at least sometimes.




Btw - Terry Wolf - I replied to your email and your email addy is no longer valid. Email me again, I would love to catch up!


Here are some grainy, uncropped pictures:







05 August 2009

Super Duper Cooper

I seriously don't have the time or energy to post here but I wanted to say that Cooper was eight weeks old yesterday and he is doing fine. He was circumcised last week and promptly got a urinary tract infection so he is on antibiotics and they make his tummy feel yuck but other than that he is doing well. He sleeps a -bit- better by now and he is smiling at me a lot and lifting his head amazingly well. Here are some pics:

He had to get an ultrasound and looked awfully cute lying on the giant bed waiting for the technician...


A favorite picture of mine. He HATES the car but he actually fell asleep once so I snapped a pic that got both his milky little face and CRAZY STUPID ADORABLE feet.

His wrists are too small for the wrist rattles (although he is nine pounds now) so I tried them on his ankles. He was not a fan.


Busy looking like my dad.
Sorry the pics are all blurry... I can never force myself to go get my camera but the cell phone is always there so that's how the pics get taken.



15 July 2009

Lord have mercy things are busy with a new baby. I just have five minutes here as Cooper is already stirring from his nap and I have not yet finished the bill paying which was on this naptimes to-do list but I wanted to let you all know that Cooper is doing fine. He is sleeping a bit better and so am I and I have a friend who has been helping me quite a bit and she adores Coopie so that helps a lot. We have been pathetic at taking pictures but as life is now beginning to settle in we will try hard to take more and then post some...I swear!

Oh, and he had his one month checkup (he was five weeks yesterday) and he is gaining weight nicely - 7 pounds 6 ounces - and is in the 5th percentile now (when he was born he was below the lowest percentile). Way to grow, Cooper!

26 June 2009

Cooper doesn't sleep. We have taken him to the doctor three times already to try and determine what is wrong. He eats well, he is gaining weight, he doesn't cry a lot but he never fucking sleeps. Paul is taking him for me as much as he can but he got stuck working 12 hour days this week so there is only so much he can do. How long can a person go without sleep? Even when he does sleep it is only in my arms or Paul's arms and when we put him down he sleeps for 5 minutes and then wakes up pissed off. Suggestions? Help, please, I'm on the verge of a nervous breakdown, I've had maybe 8 hours of sleep this entire week and that's probably a generous guess.

And do NOT tell me that this is normal newborn behaviour. It is not. Normal newborns average 16 hours of sleep per day, Cooper is averaging two.

23 June 2009

Cooper Isaak

Hey Folks, I'm sorry that I haven't updated everyone. Cooper is two weeks old tolday, he has been home since last Wednesday and he appears to be doing very well. Unfortunately he is not a happy boy, the doctor thinks that he has really bad acid reflux and has started on medicine but it may be a few days before he feels better if that is indeed his problem. He is an adorable boy and we are totally in love but he is...difficult. Some days he sleeps nothing more than the odd catnap on our chests. Meanwhile I'm still trying to heal up and Paul is back at work - neither of which are easy when we get no sleep.


Anyway, we will update you as soon as we can but that is why we haven't been around in any way. Like I said, Cooper is a beautiful boy and appears to be recovering very nicely from his premature birth and stay in the NICU but things are extremely difficult around here due to the circumstances that I mentioned and the fact that we don't know anyone to help us at all here.


I hope this makes sense :p


15 June 2009

15 days early but still perfect

On Tuesday June 9th at 9:25 pm I had an emergency C-section and Cooper Isaak was born into this world (Isaak was my paternal grandfather's name). He was 5 pounds 1 ounce and 17.5 inches. I was discharged from the hospital on Friday but our Cooper is still in the NICU. He appears to be doing fairly well but will need to stay there for a bit yet. We have lots of pictures but not much energy or time to get them from the camera to the computer. The NICU is 45 minutes away in good traffic so we spend the day with him and then go home and crash.

We are totally in love and all the pain and scariness and as-yet-unknown cost is so totally worth it. Being a mom is just as wonderful as I always knew it would be.

I will update lots more as my pain diminishes and once our boy is home. Thank you for all of your prayers and thoughts!