For Andrea:
I know, Laz. You're right. And thanks for continuing to say it. The next time we can scrape together enough cash for a doctor visit we are going to take Paul because he has to have a diabetes test. Then, the next time we can scrape together the cash for another appointment I won't take no for an answer from my doctor and will tell her, not ask her, to test for lupus. I may have to see if I can find another doctor, though, since I'm pretty sure this doctor thinks I'm just a hypochondriac. Do I have to ask for anything specific, or just say 'I think I have lupus, check'?